Built for the ADHD brain · No diagnosis required

Stop fighting your brain.
Start working with it.

Harmony is an AI coaching companion that learns how your brain works, remembers what you tell it, and helps you follow through. No rigid systems. No shame.

Free to start. No credit card. For adults 18+.

A demo conversation with Harmony: a member shares that they have been putting off a five-minute email for three days and asks what is wrong with them. Harmony replies that nothing is wrong with them, task initiation is genuinely harder for ADHD brains, and offers to shrink the start together.

Harmony is an AI coach, not a human, and not a substitute for professional medical advice, therapy, or treatment.

11,000+
community members
94%
say it changed how they see themselves
24/7
always there, on your schedule

If this is you

If you have a folder of projects you started with your whole heart and quietly abandoned.

If you're crushing it on paper and drowning in private.

If you've rewritten the same email four times in your head and still haven't sent it.

If you put everyone else first, and you never made the list.

If you've bought the planners, tried the apps, and blamed yourself when they didn't stick.

Then this was built for you.

None of that is a character flaw. It's a brain that was handed systems built for someone else. Diagnosed, self-identified, or still wondering: you're welcome here.

How it works

Three steps to feeling understood

No setup. No system to learn. It starts with someone finally asking the right questions.

01

Take the free assessment

Your ADHD Snapshot: nine honest questions about your story, what it's been costing you, and why now. Most people finish in about 20 minutes.

02

Get your personal report

The AI reads between your lines and writes a report about you. Your patterns, your strengths, the thing underneath the things. Members describe it as finally feeling seen.

03

Meet your AI coach

Your report unlocks the coach. It already knows your story, remembers your conversations, and is there at 3am when your brain won't stop.

85% of the 1,200+ people who started the free assessment finished it. In a community told its whole life it can't finish things.

Deep context

It remembers.
It connects the dots.

Generic AI forgets you the moment you close the tab. Harmony carries your story into every single conversation: your check-ins, your worksheets, your wins.

Monday · Check-in

Slept badly. Skipped the gym again.

Week 1 · Worksheet

I show up when there's structure and accountability.

Thursday · Chat

My business feels stuck and I don't know why.

Your coach, later that week

Your conversations never train AI models
Your data is never sold
Delete everything, any time

The toolkit

Everything works together.
Including you.

Every tool assumes the same thing: there is nothing wrong with you. These are the supports your brain was always supposed to have.

Daily check-ins

Twenty seconds, once a day. Not to grade yourself. To finally see your own patterns.

Guided worksheets

Deep reflection built for ADHD minds. Short enough to finish. Honest enough to change how you see yourself.

Focus sessions

One session, one task, one gentle container. No shame if you wander. There's always a way back.

Body doubling

Real people, focusing together in real time. Starting is the hardest part. Borrow someone's momentum.

Tasks & calendar

Your external brain. Tasks and calendar in one calm place, without the overwhelm of six different apps.

Voice conversations

Some days typing is too much. Talk it out loud, and your coach talks back.

Voice responses are AI-generated audio.

And 11,000+ people who get it

A community where you don't have to explain, mask, or perform. The first thing most members discover: you are not alone, and you never were.

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The 6-week program

Reinvent Your ADHD Life

A guided deep-dive, one week at a time. Every worksheet ends in a personal AI report that reads like a letter from someone who actually knows you.

Week 1

Your Commitment Letter

Name your one or two Big Rocks, face the truth you already knew, and write the letter you'll come back to.

Week 2

Your Biological Foundation

Sleep, movement, nutrition. The AI names your First Domino: the one change that makes the others easier.

Week 3

Emotional Mastery

Give your inner critic a name and build your Three-Minute Comeback Protocol for the hard moments.

Week 4

Identity Transformation

Meet the survival masks you've worn for decades, and choose who you are without them.

Week 5

Ikigai Discovery

Find your reason for being. Ten questions that end in an Ikigai statement in your own words.

Week 6

Final Reflection & Letter to Future Self

Look back at how far you've come, then write a letter to the future you.

On day one you write a commitment letter. On day forty-two you write a letter to the future you.

Harmony keeps it safe, and brings it back to you on the day you need it most.

Around 90% of members complete all six weeks. For people with a lifetime of unfinished things, that number means everything.

For the ones who keep going, there's The Long Game: The Bridge, The Monthly Mirror, The Comeback, The 90-Day Reset, and The Year of You.

What members say

This is what happens when people feel understood

Real members, in their own words: the moment they finally felt seen.

Heather Jensen

The AI report has already been life changing. I’ve seen major shifts.

Martin Hunt

After day one, I wept. I tried everything before. This is transformative.

Micki O’Brien

It helped me see myself differently. I felt really deeply seen.

Azmath Syed

There’s nothing else out there like this. Absolutely life changing. Five stars.

The people trained to be skeptical weren't, for long

Therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and coaches joined as members. Here's what they found.

Beth St Claire

As a therapist, I was skeptical about AI. But I’ve been really impressed.

Debs Molwuka

I’m a psychologist. My AI report said stop trying harder. That changed everything.

Miriam Robinson

I’m a counsellor and I was skeptical. I was in tears by day one.

Judy Hamilton

I’m a life coach. The AI said: the only person you haven’t done that for is yourself.

See all their stories

Real members, real words. Individual experiences, not a promise or guarantee of your results.

Jim Ebbelaar, founder of ADHD Harmony

Why this exists

Jim Ebbelaar

I spent years trying to fix myself. Trying to be more disciplined, more organized, more "normal." Nothing worked. And honestly, I thought the problem was me.

Then I got diagnosed with ADHD at 24. And everything shifted. Not because I found a cure, but because I finally understood: I wasn't broken. I was running the wrong operating system.

I built Harmony to give people what I wish I had. Not another productivity tool. Not another system to abandon. A companion that actually understands how your brain works, and helps you build from there.

With love, 💛 Jim

More stories

Real people. Real transformations.

Sixteen more members, in their own words, on what changed.

Natasha Williams

I started crying because it was such a relief to know there was nothing wrong with me.

Richard Russel

I’m better as a parent, as a father. My business is going better.

Michael Grundmann

You are not broken. This was the missing link I searched for many years.

Tracy Weiss

I’ve worked with many coaches. In one week I learned more than I could have hoped.

Clare McDonald

I went from not knowing who I was to having understanding and hope.

Deb Brouwer

First time a program didn’t treat me like a malfunctioning machine.

Helen A

Those words hit me like a bullet train. The report brings me to tears.

Lois Hamilton

Reading the report felt like someone finally turned the lights on.

Diana Demante

I stopped searching after completing the challenge. That’s saying a lot.

Nicola McIntosh

Mind blowing. A few tears knowing I’m not different, I’m not broken.

Dario Costa

Deep insight about a childhood event I’d never think could be so important.

Harley Sherman

Every day I read my report and every day I get choked up.

Richard Chambury

First time I’ve ever finished an online challenge. It opened doors.

Sara Edvardsson

He told me I’m not broken. I’m just different, in a good way.

Emma Spencer

I didn’t expect much. But Jim held my attention throughout all of it.

Wayne Logan

Something in me knew this would help. This community is remarkable.

Real members, real words. Individual experiences, not a promise or guarantee of your results.

Honest answers

The questions you're probably asking

No. Harmony is a self-help coaching and wellness tool. It is not therapy, counseling, or any form of licensed mental health or medical care, and it isn't a substitute for those. Many members use it alongside professional support. If you're in crisis, please reach out to a professional or a helpline like 988 (US) or findahelpline.com. Harmony is not monitored in real time and isn't built for emergencies.

You were never broken.
You were never alone.

Start with the free assessment. Twenty minutes from now, you could be reading a report about yourself that finally makes it all make sense.

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Free to start. No credit card. For adults 18+.

Harmony is an AI coaching companion, not a human, and not a substitute for professional medical advice, therapy, or treatment. In a crisis, contact 988 (US) or find local support at findahelpline.com.